wow. its been what, months? that i havent even logged on to multiply. haha. well, you know edah, been busy with her so called "girl stuffs". haha. righht. anyhoos, i'm not going to be blogging on multiply anymore, cause i'm so caught up in my blogspot now. but, i'll still log on now and then to see the other's updates, and i'll be using multiply as a place to post pictures, videos, musics, and reviews maybe. Blogger nada specific area to post them wah. hehe. so, multiply still has some advantages.*thumbs up to multiply*

i've been a lot lately. new experiences, new memories, new friends maybe?, hehe. so, if your really up to getting into my latest business, click here happy reading =)

bah, i need to get some shut-eyes.

signing off.....

xx-Edah

so, newsflash! anak bulan inda nampak, which means another day of fasting, which leads to 30 days of puasa in total. which means i need to "kada' " 4 days. remind me.

My sister, Nana, is coming back tomorrow from uk. yay. haha. excited? sadang. i get my "stuffs" and yeah i get to see her again after not meeting her for like, 2-3 months tops? other than that..hmm.. my plan of getting the bathroom all to myself again is flushed down the drain. NO more 2-3 hours shower (labih kah tu?) and NO more poopy time without kena marah because..just because.....and and NO more space for the many-many beauty products i'm kinda "addicted" to purchasing. BLAME THE ADS!

So anyways.. abang hani aka rahim just got the green lights from nini. *kirai-kirai*

Nini Haji: Eh, kawan si rahim kah tu, wardah? (pointing arah a girl who abang hani was speaking to in the car)

Wardah: (sapakan?oh, kaka fifi) au, ia tu.

Herman: haha, lawa, nini? *thumbs up*

Nini Haji: boleh tahan~

Herman: wahh~green light udah tu eh..*turns to wardah* Dah, beritahu abang hani BIG BOSS green light udah..

HAHAHA..panat jua tu dorang ah.

Anyways, got to go now. eh, its past 12 udah. how time flies.esuk raya bebbb!!haha..ampau~ampau~xp

HAPPY RAYA READERS!

with love,

Edah

zunnn!!i'm so sorry!i wanted to text you on THE day,tapi credit ku low tia jua..hehe..better late than never kan?*hugs*

Personal message(For izun's eyes only...others please "tutup mata".lol.):

Dear izun..First of all, i misss youu!! after edah abes o's exam and u wiv ur a's exam..jalan ah..liat wayang..i'm planning on watching "twilight" in December..have u read the book?siuk jua lah..you should see the trailer..the main guy character is WOW..haha..si cedric wah in harry potter and the goblet of fire ah..hehe..i hope u had fun on ur birthday.."ur 50th birthday"(quoted)..haha..bah..will talk to you soon *wink-wink* Loves!

p/s: shoot for the moon or be with the stars :)

HAPPY BIRTHDAY ZUUN!!

With Loads of Love;

Edah<3

A short shout out to adik si syima and si tikah, and abang si ariff and si alai..haha..specific banar kan? A.K.A muiz..or gaara(as safwan calls u) haha..ala ala naruto bah. ada-ada saja kamu ani. Sory ah kaka edah late greeting jua...*peace*



Eh, basar udah adik si syima anie. bah, lots of luckss for your upcoming exams. x) make your family proud. and ur cousin anie jua. hehe..

Edah<33

I know i'm late, like very late...but here goes...



I'm sorry i'm late..didn't mean to babe. sibuk wah..you know..very hectic. i know kau sad masa ari atu pasal aku inda greet kan?hehe..well, i'll get you something very nice to the max when exams over. no worries alright. Loves!xoxo. Hot babes alert forever & ever...kan??haha..xp

Edah<33

*sigh* I must be the most stupid person walking on the face of the Earth now. This is what happened after I came back from school a few minutes tadi:

 

Mummy: [screaming from the kitchen] EDAAHH!!MAKAAAN!!

Me: [awaken from my sleep] ugghh..bising ehhh..

Mummy: EDAAAHH!!Inda kau makan kah?

I’m not the type you should awaken from a beauty sleep, especially when I was only sleeping for at least five minutes and was really tired from sleeping late absorbing English literaterary terms. I’m the very-cranky-and-moody-type kalau kana bangunkan from a sleep. Seriously. Pemarah gitu loh.

 

Me: TIDUUURR EDAH WAH EEH!!! (Slamming my bedroom door)

Mummy: Apa kata nya lul?

Mirul: tidur nya bu… 

Mummy: OOOIII EDAAAHHHH!!INDAAA KAUU MAKAAAN??

Me: EH, majal jua eh!!
 

(At this point, I was totally cranky and in a really murderous mode. I would have killed a fly if it was in my way. I stammered down the stairs and into the kitchen.)

 

Me: PUASA edah wah!!

 

So okay, at this point, I was actually exaggerating. I was planning on fasting last night, but I kind of forgot to recite the niat, so in that case, its not SAH. So, inda jadi lah. But, then my mouth just won’t stop rambling and ended up blaming mummy pasal mengacau urang puasa.

Mummy: ohh...mana mummy tau kau puasa. Luan saru jua kau anie eh. Kalau mummy tau, inda mummy kan memanggil kau makan tadi. Ilang tia pahala marah-marah anie. 

Me: (exaggerating again) eh, dimalam jua udah edah bagitau!indakan inda merati??
 

Mummy: Mana ada kau bagitau, yang mummy ingat, kau cakap kau inda jadi puasa masa ari isnin pasal kau lupa…& kau bejanji udah sama kawan mu masa atuu...

Me: (exaggerating again) ehh...ada kaliah! pelupa eh!

Here’s the idiotic part. I grabbed a plate of rice on the table which was actually mummy punya, a spoonful of veggies and a piece of chicken nugget. Haha…and I said I was fasting. Idiotic kan? nampak udah membual nya ah.
 

Mummy: Eh, nasi mummy jua tu.

Me: [passing the plate to mummy] nah eh...

Mummy: Mummy inda mau nugget.

Me: Ehh, luan saru jua ehh… [relocating the nugget to another plate]
 

Mummy was like so very very very very very very very intimidated by me. This means her mouth will open wide and lecture me. Hah. Wrong move mother. This didn’t make it any better. In fact, it made it much much much much much worse. I have this automatic gesture of covering my ears when I hear something I don’t like. Its just one of my so called condition reflex action. But one thing was different this time. Usually, it would intimidate mum even more and make her undergo her “automatic gesture” of screaming even louder. I realized something. I had overlooked the whole argument to find I WAS AT FAULT. Yeap. I admit it was my fault. I shouldn’t have exaggerated and take my anger on mummy. And this I realized when I was chewing on the nugget. There must be some kind of magic ingredient in the nugget that had the power to activate my guilt mode. 

Now, I’m in my room, drenching my face with bitter tears regretting all the words I said to mummy. I sincerely wanted to apologize. Honest! Tapi, when I was about to go down the stairs, I heard mummy talking to mimie, my youngest brother. These were her words:
 

“Pecaya ku kaka edah mu atu laii… atukan mummy inda tau yang ia puasa. Marah kan nya tah pulang mummy pasal masakkan ia makanan. Anie nasi mummy balikan pun inda ia makan. Mun arah teacher nya tu nada ia berani tu kan becakap cematu, lagur-lagur kan pintu atu, arah indung nya tah pulang tegamak ati nya kan becakap cematu. Mana jua mummy kan  tau ia puasa, kalau jua ia bagitau mummy di malam, manatau mummy inda tedangar. Tau udah mummy anie makin tua macam babu mu atu bah. Mummy udah gagas-gagas balik dari sekolah pasal mummy tau ia selalu datang kerumah awal, udah atu lapar lagi ia. Mun ia indakan minta masakkan, bagitau. Mun ia inda kan makan, bagitau lah mummy. Inda mummy kan tekapai-kapai bebaju sekolah masih memasakkan ia. Dapat jua mummy naik ke atas dulu sembahyang apa atu. Banyak lagi keraja kan mummy buat.”

I know I’m such a jerk. Sometimes I feel I don’t even deserve her as my mummy. She’s doing her very best in raising me and my other sibs. Catering to our every need without hoping for a payback. Tapi, Edah macam apa? I don’t help her around the house, alasan kan belajar for o-levels, and we don’t have maids. She washes all our clothes, including daddy’s. She cooks for our every meal. She keeps the house clean. She’s always there when I need rescuing from si itam and si coklat, which are the house lizards that always scare the hell of me when I’m in the bathroom. We rarely greet her on her birthday. Only when we arrive in school and look at the date written on the whiteboard that we realize it’s her special day. We don’t even remember when “mothers day” is. We say thank you to the waiter or the chef who cooks for us in the restaurant, but never to our mother who cooks at home. I might as well be in hell now for all those I did to my mother. Don’t you think so too?

And my mum still thinks she ruined my fasting, when in fact, I was not fasting to begin with. I was exaggerating. She must feel very guilty. All I could say to her was “eh, Sorry lah!”… like, what the hell?? if a guy was to say “eh, Sorry lah!” to me for hurting my feelings, I would have not hesitated telling him to F*CK OFF!! 

God, why is it that I’m always too much of a coward to admit I was wrong and that I love her so much?? Saying sorry to mummy just seems to be the hardest thing to me now. Is it because I’m growing up now and have this illusive thinking that GROWN UPS DON’T MAKE MISTAKES? If that’s the case, then I guess I shouldn’t grow up. 

I know its too early and all. But, what if my kids would treat me the way I treated my mum? Like the saying goes, what comes around, goes around. I wouldn’t want my kids to scream at me. Who would be at fault then? Can I blame my kids? I should learn to appreciate my mother before my turn comes. I absolutely don’t want a corrupted relation with my kids someday. I sure as hell don’t want my kids to do what I did and say things I said. 

For all you readers out there, please appreciate your mum. They don’t ask for much, all they want is for you to love them in return and be the very best person you can be. Remember her birthday. Remember mothers day. Even through your entire busy schedule, spare at least five minutes to talk to her just to tell her how important she is in your life. She has after all spared nine months carrying you in her womb, and at least 18 more years providing you with most of the things you need. Give her a break. Buy her new stuffs. Do anything for her, because in truth, your mother is your true love who will hold you at your weakest, look at you at your ugliest and love you at your worst.
 

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I dont know why. But, for some apparent reason,the more closer it is to o'level exams, the more i procrastinate. The more lazy i become. bukan lazy kan memanyap bilik and mandi. but, lazy kan study. HAHA. Seriously,is that normal or am i just very vulnerable to be influenced oleh "setan o-level"?Its like I'm wasting my time doing stuff other than studying. i vacuumed my room 6 times since last week. At first i thought i was just sakai kan mummy's new vaccuum from LUX. The new vaccuum is totally awesome dude..Like, when you smell the area where you just vaccuumed,theres this scent macam pine..AWESOME right?haha. And last night, edah cuci jamban instead of revising for my computer and physics exam. Thank God the paper was okay. I managed to answer most of the questions, and NO i didnt leave the others blank, thank you very much. i used my common sense and thought logically.hehe..I think the same thing happened during my PMB, tapi i must have been too busy cyber-ing(storming the internet) to have noticed.

Or maybe its just a "family thing"..my sister says she has a degree in procrastination. maybe i inherited it from her?"i'm NOT blaming you na..i'm just trying to get solutions for my problem,okay"

I changed my layout again if you've noticed, which is like my third time this week. wow. haha. see how bad my problem is?i might even be procrastinating now. i should be studying now,not blogging..i have malay II and chemistry II tommorow. Two subjects i know i suck at, and yet not revising for. huh. And i know, after posting this, i'll be downstairs eating mee norbi and watching indonesian shows pasal "comblang" (matchmaking in indon). I dont even like the show.haha. What the hell is wrong with me??? My friends doesnt seem to have the problem..

Friend: Hey,dah kau blajar lenks?

Me: Erm,yeah..baru tadi dalam kerita..just flipping pages.

Friend: Gila kau..haha..handal jua. I stayed up last night pasal pasal inda mau masuk ah.

Me:oh,aku pun kan stay up..but somehow,aku tetidur with the notes in my hand.Magic kan?

Friend: Oh, eh, two words girl; WILL POWER. baik tah kau kuatkan semangat mu. jangan terinfluence oleh setan o-level. O-level wah ne lai.kau jua angan2 kan ambil A-level di UK. karang bari malu mun nda dapat.

 

haha..i'm TRYING okay..but somehow the "setan o-level" is getting the best of me..eish eish eish.

News of the day: My brother, Herman is not coming back tomorrow pasal passport nya alum kana antar ke london. Well, at least thats what he said..haha..*wink-wink*

Edah<3

I just got my english qualifying paper the other day since we did the paper earlier than the other papers pasal the government wanted all Brunei schools to do the same paper. Suprisingly, i got an A2. hehe..anyway,heres what i wrote for part 1 of paper 1. Enjoy!

The question (i chose, it was optional): Money.[kaa-cchiing $_$]

"I'm so sorry for your loss", said a man in a grey suit. Jack murmered "thanks", while I stood blinking at his imprecise choice of words. A loss? One loses a dollar a two. But to lose this vast amount of money is a catastrophe. A devastation. A hell.

Two days ago, an approximate amount of B$1.5 million was stolen from my bank. The "M&J" bank. Jack and I built this bank in the hope of making it the best and most secure bank in the World. This had been true before today. "M&J" was the best. It was better than Standard Chartered Bank. Better than the Hong Kong Bank. How could something move from the top to the bottom within forty-eight hours. I guess the laws of gravity can explain that.

My name is Melanie, and I own the "M&J" bank, formerly known as "Melanie & Jack" bank. Jack is my business partner, my husband and a father to my only daughter, Mary Jane. "M&J" bank was built a year after our wedding, the same day I gave birth to Marry Jane. Ever since I was a little girl, I have always dreamt of a place, where everything revolves around money. I love money, who doesn't? Even after graduation, after college, after the wedding, money has always been my top priority. "Money makes the world go round," I used to say.

"Happy 16th birthday MJ" was written on a piece of blue card next to the nicely wrapped shoe box. Mary Jane sighed and said to herself "that was all she got to say". She tore the wrappings without considering how beautifully wrapped the gift was. In the box was a pair of expensive black Jimmy Choo's stilletos. Mary tossed the pair to the ground, laid on her bed and cried. The soft cry then turned into loud sobs. "Things will change. Just you wait"

Colourful balloons and ribbons dropped from the ceiling. "Its been sixteen years now and the M&J bank is still going strong. Without all of you, this would not have been achieved", spoke Jack as he toasted a drink.

I sat watching the rain hit my window pane as I tried to absorb the fact that a heist had occured at my bank. 1.5 million. That is a very big number. Huge. Gigantic. Then, like lightning, an idea came into my mind. "I will get my money back", I thought. That heist had to be an insider's job. It had to be one of my workers, maybe even Jack. Only those who are verbal on the ups and downs of the entire bank can carry out a heist of that large amount of money in my bank. I pulled out a notepad and a pen, trying to write down suspects. I cut down the list to one name. Jack. Then it occured to me that during the last two days, Jack had always been 'missing'.

"Heres your coffee, Jack", I said serving a cup of coffee on the mahogany side table in front of Jack's armchair. "Thank you, honey", answered Jack. I sat on the chair opposite to Jack, waiting for the time to come. 'Thump. Jack fell to the floor. "Whats wrong with me?I cant feel my arms,my legs, my entire body!What was in that coffee, Mel?". I stood next to his distorted body, and snorted "I know you did it, you scumbag! This was your plan all along, right at the very beginning!Right at the moment you said 'I do'!". Jack, having a hard time on the floor, spoke up "what are you saying?Are you assuming I stole the money?Very clever, Mel. Why would I steal money from our bank?It was my bank too". "Thats what you want me to think, right Jack?". I took a gun from the drawer next to Jack's body which we kept for safety and aimed it at Jack, "where is my money?". Jack assured ne that he did not have it. I didn't believe him and fired a shot. Blood rushed through his body. The neighbours heard the gun shot and called the police. The police came minutes later and brought me to the station. Mary Jane came later that night and confessed. I was dumbstruck. How could my daughter do this to me?

"I did it because of you, mum. You made me do it. You never loved me!All you cared about was your stupid money"

In the end, I lost my money, my bank, my family, and my life. Let this be a lesson to you. Money can't buy happiness.

The End

Comments please both good and bad. I'm a big girl, i can handle it.

p/s: i got a 38 out of 40 for this composition. The total marks for my first paper was 95%. Not bad huh?

<33Edah

For Nana, from mummy:

AQIQAH

PENGERTIANNYA:

Makna aqiqah dari segi bahasa ialah rambut yang di atas kepala kanak-kanak waktu ia dilahirkan.

Dari segi syarak maknanya ialah binatang yang disembelih pada waktu mencukur rambut kanak-kanak itu. 

HUKUMNYA:

Sunat muakkadah bagi mereka yang wajib memberi nafkah kanak-kanak itu dengan hartanya sendiri bukan dengan harta kanak-kanak itu.

Maksud sunat muakkadah itu ialah sunat yang digalakkan atau yang hampir kepada wajib atau sunat yang diberatkan iaitu kepada mereka yang mampu melakukan aqiqah dengan menggunakan harta mereka sendiri bukan dengan hartanya anaknya. Jika mereka menggunakan harta anaknya itu maka wajib ke atas mereka membayar balik harta anak yang digunakan untuk membeli bintang aqiqah tersebut. 

Jika sekiranya kedua ibu bapa anak itu tidak mampu untuk melakukan aqiqah untuk anak nya itu kerana papa atau miskin sehingga tidak mampu membayar zakat fitrah, maka disunatkan pula ke atas datuk atau nenek anak tadi jika keduanya mampu untuk melakukan nya, kerana Nabi SAW sendiri pernah melakukan aqiqah untuk cucunya Hasan dan Husain.

Dan jika datuk dan neneknya juga tidak mampu maka sunatlah pada diri anak itu sendiri setelah ia baligh nanti. 

WAKTU AQIQAH:

Aqiqah boleh dilakukan sebaik-baik sahaja anak itu lahir dan berterusan disunatkan sehingga anak itu baligh.

Waktu yang afdal(lebih baik) untuk melakukan aqiqah ialah pada hari ketujuh dari kelahiran anak tersebut. Dari Samurah Bin Jundub, Rasulullah SAW bersabda: 

"Setiap anak yang baru lahir itu tergadai sehingga ia disembelihkan aqiqah untuk nya pada hari yang ketujuh dikira dari hari lahirnya dan di hari itu juga hendaklah dicukurkan rambutnya dan diberi nama"

(Riwayat al-Imam Ibnu Majah)

Maksud dari perkataan tergadai itu ialah apabila lahir seorang anak ke dunia ini, ,maka kebajikannya telah tergadai kepada Allah Subhanahu Wataala. Oleh yang demikian, hendaklah ibu bapanya menebus semula anak itu dengan melakukan aqiqah untuk nya iaitu dengan menyembelih yang afdal nya dua ekor kambing atau lain-lain binatang yang diboleh kan untuk seorang anak lelaki dan harus juga dengan seekor kambing saja atau seekor kambing untuk anak perempuan atau lain-lain binatang yang dibolehkan. Dengan ini barulah kebajikan anak tersebut diserahkan kembali oleh Allah Subhanahu Wataala kepada ibu bapa nya. 

Ada pendapat lain mengatakan maksud tergadai ini ialah anak itu tidak akan dapat memberi syafaat kepada kedua ibu bapa nya pada hari kiamat nanti jika ibu bapa nya tidak melakukan aqiqah untuk nya.

Maksudnya jika kanak-kanak itu meninggal dunia sebelum ia baligh dan belum disembelihkan aqiqah untuknya maka kanak-kanak itu tidak akan dapat menolong ibu bapa nya pada hari kiamat nanti seperti memohon agar ibu bapa nya masuk syurga kerana doa atau permohonan kanak-kanak yang meninggal sebelum baligh itu adalah dimakbulkan Tuhan(Allah). Maka jika ia belum diaqiqahkan, tidaklah ia dapat berdoadan memohon untuk kedua orang tua nya. 

TEMPOH AQIQAH

Tempoh melakukan aqiqah itu tidak ada akhirnya,contohnya seperti berikut:

1)Jika kanak-kanak yang baru lahir meninggal dunia sebelum baligh maka aqiqah kanak-kanak itu masih lagi sunat dilakukan oleh kedua ibu bapanya atau orang yang wajib memberi nafkah ke atas anak-anak tersebut.

2) Aqiqah itu berterusan sunat dilakukan sehingga kanak-kanak itu baligh.

3)Jika anak itu baligh maka sunat itu tertanggung ke atas dirinya sendiri.

4)Jika anak itu meninggal setelah ia baligh maka suna juga di lakukan aqiqah untuk nya oleh keluarganya dengan hartanya jika ia ada meninggalkan harta. Jika tidak,maka tidaklah sunat aqiqah itu dilakukan. 

BINATANG-BINATANG AQIQAH

1)Unta berumur antara lima hingga enam tahun.

2) Kerbau, lembu dan kambing berumur dua hingga tiga tahun.

3) Biri-biri berumur setahun atau telah bertukar dua gigi hadapannya sekalipun umurnya tidak sampai setahun. 

Binatang-binatang yang hendak di jadikan aqiqah hendaklah yang sihat dan tidak ada kecacatan atau penyakit padanya.

BILANGAN BINATANG AQIQAH

Dalam sebuah hadis daripada Aisyah radiallahu anha berkata :

"Rasulullah SAW menyuruh kami melakukan aqiqah untuk anak lelaki dengan menyembelih dua ekor kambing dan anak perempuan menyembelih seekor kambing"

(Riwayat al-Imam Ibnu Majah) 

Dari hadis di atas jelas menerangkan bahawa bilangan aqiqah kambing untuk anak lelaki sebanyak dua ekor dan anak perempuan seekor kambing.

Aqiqah bagi binatang kerbau, lembu dan unta pula ialah 2/7 bahagian bagi anak lelaki dan 1/7 bahagian bagi anak perempuan. Jika tidak mampu memadailah bagi anak lelaki satu ekor kambing atau 1/7 daripada lembu, kerbau atau unta. 

Maksud daripada 2/7 bahagian itu ialah satu ekor daripada kerbau, lembu atau unta dibahagi kepada tujuh bahagian. Kemudian di ambil dua bahagian daripadanya bagi aqiqah anak lelaki, dengan itu anak lelaki mendapat bahagiannya sebanyak 2/7. Satu bahagian lagi diambil bagi anak perempuan dengan itu anak perempuan mendapat bahagiannya 1/7.

Maksud bahagi tujuh itu ialah dinilai daripada harga binatang tersebut. Misalnya seekor kerbau berharga $1,750. Kemudian $1,750 itu dibahagi kepada tujuh bahagian dan tiap satu bahagian membayar $250. 

Dalam hal seorang beraqiqah besar menyembelih seperti lembu, kerbau, atau unta ertinya bolehlah dikongsi sehingga untuk tujuh orang seperti dua ekor kerbau untuk tujuh orang anak laki-laki atau seekor kerbau untuk tujuh orang anak perempuan.

Sesiapa yang ingin berkongsi itu tidaklah disyaratkan semuanya dari satu keluarga malahan untuk sesiapa sahaja. Dan tidak juga disyaratkan ketujuh-tujuhnya mesti berniat untuk melakukan aqiqah. Bahkan boleh juga sebahagian dari tujuh itu berniat untuk melakukan korban jika binatang itu disembelih pada Hari Raya Haji atau sebahagiannya dari tujuh itu berniat untuk melakukan korban jika binatang itu disembelih pada Hari Raya Haji atau sebahagiannya lagi untuk dijual atau untuk dimakan sendiri. 

Misalnya seekor kerbau bolehlah dibahagi tujuh mengikut nilai harga kerbau tersebut. Kemudian 2/7 diniatkan untuk melakukan aqiqah bagi seorang anak lelaki, dan 1/7 lagi diniatkan untuk aqiqah seorang anak perempuan dan selebihnya 4/7 lagi bolehlah di jual atau dimakan.

Dan boleh juga diambil 2/7 lagi dari baki 4/7 itu untuk aqiqah seorang lagi anak lelaki dan 1/7 untuk seorang lagi anak perempuan dan baki 1/7 lagi dijual atau diniatkan untuk korban jika ianya disembelih pada Hari Raya Haji. 

Atau boleh juga diambil 4/7 tadi untuk aqiqah dua orang lagi anak lelaki atau empat orang lagi anak perempuan.

Jadinya dalam seekor kerbau boleh dijadikan aqiqah untuk dua orang anak lelaki dan tiga orang anak perempuan atau tiga orang anak lelaki dan seorang anak perempuan dan seterusnya. 

DAGING AQIQAH

Daging aqiqah itu sunat dimasak dengan dicampur sedikit bahan-bahan yang manis seperti madu agar perangai kanak-kanak tersebut elok dan baik, tetapi jika dimasak dengan rasa masam hukumnya tidaklah makruh. Manakala tulangnya janganlah dipecah-pecahkan atau dikerat kecil-kecik dan hendaklah binatang itu dipotong mengikut sendi-sendinya agar anggota kanak-kanak itu sempurna dan selamat. Jika dipecahkan tidaklah makruh tetapi menyalahi yang utama. Kaki kanan hingga peha daging aqiqah yang masih mentah afdal diberikan kepada bidan. 

Dan sunat pula dimasak dahulu sebelum disedekahkan. Ia sunat disedekahkan sebahagiannya kepada fakir miskin dan sebahagiannya lagu disedekahkan kepada jiran tetangga. Hukum ini adalah untuk aqiqah sunat.

Daging aqiqah ini, jika ia aqiqah sunat maka bolehlah dimakan oleh orang-orang yang melakukan aqiqah itu. Jika ia aqiqah wajib seperti ianya dinazarkan maka haram bagi yang melakukan aqiqah itu untuk memakannya, bahkan wajib disedekahkan semuanya kepada fakir miskin dalam keadaan mentah. 

PENUTUP

Melakukan aqiqah adalah satu cara untuk melahirkan rasa syukur dan kegembiraan kita kepada Allah Subhanahu Wataala atas kurnia-Nya memberi  cahayamata dan zuriat keturunan di samping untuk mendekatkan diri kita kepada Allah Subhanahu Wataala dan untuk mendapatkan keredaan serta keberkatan-Nya.

 

I got this problem.its like a major problem.and i totally dont know what to do.

so yeah..here it goes.

theres this one guy.lets name him 'Z'..and theres this girl..erm..'B'. okay..and then theres me..'S'...So si Z and B are in love with each other, while B and S are "Best Friends Forever", well at least we're supposed to be..

At first, S was totally okay with B being together with Z..He was nice.He was charming.He was a 4 on my 1-10 hottie scale,which isnt so bad...banar..i rate Christiano Ronaldo as a 5.5.He was PERFECT for B..but there was one thing S and B overlooked.His true being.He was actually selfish,penyibuk,gay,and stupid!there!hah..Behind that cheap ugly smile,is actually the evil-est guy in the world.he was one of those talam-dua-muka kind of people..

Heres what happened; si Z said something to someone really close to S, lets call this someone E..

Z: hi E..asalammualaikum..apa kabar mu?lum kau balik?

E: oh,hi.waalaikumsalam..ne,kajap g ah.aku baik eh.

Z: owh. *grin*

*silence*

Z: eh, kabar ku nda baik wah.tau ko napa?

E: nda.

Z: atu wah girlfriend ku ah palui. dorang atu lah sekawan palui. macam kan main kan kami laki2. banar eh. baie tu dorang ah.

E : (not understanding what he was talking about) owh..andang nya tu eh.

Z: iakah?palui. iatah kan ku putuskan ne girlfriend ku ah..nda ku tahan.banar eh.

E: oh. bah balik ku dulu.

Z: bah..assalammualaikum. bisai-bisai sja kau sama si S ah.

BUSEETT~~haha..i was like "WTH??" when i heard the story.seriously,if you see him,you cant really tell he's the type of guy to say those kind of things.When i confronted him, he was grinning at me the whole time, pretending he didnt know anything. rasa kan ku cabut bah satu-satu gigi nya ah..lol. So yeah, i told my other two BFFs', si L and si A. and they reacted the same way i did.it was totally unexpected.and we used to support their relationship since B said she really liked him.So, the problem is B doesnt know what we know, and we have no idea how to tell her. but,she's still going strong with Z since Z is pretending it never happened.

If you were in my shoes (in S's shoes), what would you do?

p/s: my suffering is finally over!!i dont know how or when..but yeah,its gone..hehe =D

hmm..find a guy that adores you? so..what if there were like more than one guy.. i mean,its not like we're allowed to choose more than one right.. ok ok..i know..i'm only 16..but its not wrong to be CURIOUS kan...every girl is bound to be adored by more than one guy..i think nana experienced it once or twice in her teen life..hehe..edah TER-liat arah buku kaka nana scribbles like "who do i love?...". LOL. anyways..it would be very annoying if at one point your head over heels with this one guy and suddenly another guy comes into your life convincing you that he's THE ONE..and i've come across some girls who made the mistake of leaving the first guy to be with the second guy and discovered they had made the wrong choice..and some girls even made the mistake of not picking the second guy when she had the chance..and ended up with the first guy who turns out to be a LOSER..so yeah..very very annoying plus super confusing..hehe..

being super curious, i googled "how to choose the right man?" so okay,then the results were out of the topic like "how to choose the right gift for man..","how to choose the right socks for your man"..etc etc..hehe..i should have been more specific. then i came across this "how to choose the right partner?"

haha..partner?ok.,sounds weird,eh?i mean,we refer to our business partner as partner,ur sidekick,partner..but your lover?partner?haha..hmm..must have some kind of adult provised meaning to it or something..so yeah,whatever. here it is..happy reading =) :

To begin your quest(quest?bahahaha) to find the right partner, think about the traits and behaviors you prefer. Most people automatically think of superficial traits such as “height” or “blue eyes.” Though these traits can be important, other traits are more important when it comes to having a healthy, long-term relationship. (honestly,in my opinion,i think size,colour of eyes,looks,etc arent really "important considerations" we should make in choosing the right guy,i mean why bother?) Here is a list of some important qualities to consider:

Commitment to personal growth

• Is interested in learning how to be a better person and spouse(husband or wife) 
• Is aware of emotional baggage, blind spots, and weaknesses. (be yourself!)
• Has personal goals for self-improvement. (do we really need to improve ourself?)



Emotional Openness

• Is aware of his or her own feelings
• Is able to express his or her feelings (cemana?) 
• Desires to share feelings with you



Integrity

• Is honest with himself or herself 
•  Is honest with others and you (cemana kami kan tau tu?)
• Does not play games about wants and feelings



Maturity and Responsibility

• Maintains a clean house, pays bills and handles finances
• Is able to take care of himself or herself
• Follows through on promises, shows up on time, doesn't let people down (aweeh,banar tu)
• Respects your boundaries, feelings, time, etc.



High Self-esteem

• Takes pride in himself or herself without being arrogant
• Takes care of body, living environment, car, possessions
• Does not allow other people to mistreat him/her



Positive Attitude Towards Life

• Focuses on solutions instead of problems
• Turns obstacles into opportunities
• Sees the good in situations and people

Now that your list is complete consider some flaws that are fatal to a relationship. Your partner might have one or more of these traits and still be capable of having a relationship. However, you may have a problem-filled relationship. According to Barbara DeAngelis, PhD the following is a list of fatal flaws:

• Addictions
• Anger
• Victim consciousness
• Control freak (haha..)
• Sexual dysfunction (Err..whaat?)
• Hasn't grown up (so?its fun being a kid than an adult)
• Emotionally unavailable (emo..hahaha)
• Hasn't recovered from past relationships (move on !!) 
• Emotional damage from childhood (.......)

 

Analyze Yourself

Next, turn the examination inwards. Ask yourself what is holding you back from having a loving relationship. Perhaps you are hurt from a previous break-up. Maybe you are afraid of commitment. Identify these issues and handle them . In addition, examine your previous relationships and learn from them. What mistakes did you make? What aspects of a previous relationship would you want to develop in future relationship(s)? Finally, examine other factors that might affect your partner choice: cultural norms, expectations of male and female roles, religious background, and socioeconomic needs.

Analyze Your Relationship

Once you are in a relationship continue to examine your compatibility with your partner. Do not overlook compatibility issues in order to be in a relationship. In other words, do not ignore warning signs of potential problems. Other mistakes include making compromises, such as eliminating activities you like because they don't interest your partner or reducing communication with family members your partner dislikes.

Talk to Your Partner

You should not be hesitant to ask your partner questions. You need to find out the behaviors and attitudes you can expect for later. It is important to learn not only about your partner but also about your partner's relationship with his or her family. Moreover, learning about your partner's family will provide insights about your partner. Here is a list of questions you could ask:

• What do you like to do for fun? What did you do for fun when you were younger? How often do you get out and have fun? How much time per week do you take for leisure activities? What do you do when you want to relax? What do you like to do on vacation? What were your friendships like when you were growing up?
• How do you handle tough times? How have you handled some of the difficult situations in your life?
• What were your parents like when you were growing up? How did their opinions influence you, then and now? How did your parents get along? How have you changed over the years?
• What are your plans for the future? What are your attitudes and what is your style for handling money? Do you like to help with household chores? What do you like to talk about? What conversations do you like to avoid?

Take Your Time

Overall, be patient. Take the time to get to know potential partners before jumping into a relationship. After all, you wouldn't select the first apple that caught your eye in the produce bin! Why be any less selective with your choice of mate?

 

hehe..take your time..

sighhh...

to think my pc was FREE from THE STUPID VIRUS...happy jua edah udah tu..but its not!

manakan the people at concept didnt charge me..cubatah drg charge 1 cent pun..and i found out the virus is still on my pc..inda tah karang edah sue dorang if dorang inda give me back my 1 cent..hehe..skadar much.

anyways..i guess the only way is to make a new email..if its still on my pc jua..then i'm buying a new lappy..hehe..yay!so,who wants to buy this laptop?=) any takers?B$1000 sja..jangantah mahal-mahal..hehe..

 

"Hey, i'm thinking of putting this picture of you on my blog?what do you think?"

Thats the message that started my suffering a week ago..pernah kamu kana?

by suffering, i mean suffering from this STUPID VIRUS which none of the anti-viruses i installed can detect..like,seriously..i installed three strong viruses my contacts recommended, i.e AVG, node32, and symantec..and none of them worked..its cause the virus is formated "WInzip" so,the pc cant detect it as they think its not threatening...not threatening my arse!

its been a week now..and its still stuck on my pc..the contacts on my email are automatically receiving invitations to accept a so called "picture" which is actually the virus. god. annoying banar eh...because of the stupid virus,most of my contacts are blocking me..pasal takut dorang pun kana.My friend yang pernah experienced this kind of suffering cakap the only way to get rid of it is by sending it off to someone else..and masa ari atu one of my contacts udah accept..and guess what?my so called "Experienced" friend was W-R-O-N-G!well,at least i got a friend to share my sufferings with..hehe..

If anyone reading this blog has any idea on how to lift this suffering off me..please please please speak up..i really need help. please and thank you 

your friend,sister,cousin,online buddy,neighbour;

 

 

do you ever wonder how it feels to be a guy for a change if you are naturally a girl..and vice versa if you are naturally a boy?

this idea came to me randomly masa sembayang the other day.ketara inda khusyuk..astaga..tapi,seriously,sometimes the random-es thoughts muncul when we sembayang..setan lah punya keraja..thats why i often ter-recite tahyat aher masa the second rakaat..LOL

anyways..masa ari atu,this was batah udah..before nana came back...edah wore mimie's school uniform...saja. you know..just curious..and it felt different.i even pulled my hair back. and i found out mimie's butt and entire badan was like twice bigger than mine.like.WOW.and he's 4 years younger than me!

 

okay...i am officially a form 5-er,which means i'll be taking my o'level exam this year. From what i heard,o level is like the ultimate test which tells us what we're quallified to do,which university we could get into..etc.etc.

i'm aiming to get 9 distinctions this year, including english literature. I got all the stuffs i need and its just a matter of having everything done in time, and time seems to be my only opponent and also "syaitan" lah..tapi that can be avoided,by banyak-banyak berdoa..

*deep breaths* WOW..school just started and extra classes have already been arranged and is starting tomorrow!And then theres tution every night except on sundays..

i have to always think positively to keep everything in line.GAWD.just thinking of all the things i need to do is making me want to throw up. Just the other day i was panicking during chemistry practical where i had no idea on how to use the bunsen burner!gila eh..how lame is that?

so now i'm trying to make time by deleting my friendster,not layan-ing baz for a while (he was kind enough to understand and support me all the way..GOO ME!), get rid of unnecessaries, no shopping, no chatting, && much much more..making sacrafices are so not easy,trust me..just tadi my friends bawa liat "alvin & the chipmunks"(which i was so dying to watch..theadore kiut!)..and i had to turn them down just because i was practicing my english vocabulary..i cried lapas atuu..i really did want to catch that movie with them.. but,i'm not regretting my decision..i know its all going to be worth it..like they say,"biar besusah payah dulu,besanang-sanangan kemudian.."(or something like that..hehe..)

okay,enough about o'level..lets move on to my cat problems..

pernah kamu liat someone married to this many men?haha..its such a pity to watch our jesse(female cat) suffer from having this many men ,including one of her biological son,si puss..haha..cemana kan tu?having a son whose into his own mother..talk about mistaking ur mom for a girlfriend.

seriously,madewa is so lacking female cats..its like the only female felines in the whole neighbourhood are at my house..

bah its 12:34am now..better get some shut-eye..have school tomorrow..

-will be back soon-

4C = 4 cala, 4 Celaka, 4 apa lagi?

Can any of u think of any bad ideas on what 4C stands for?

i'm sorry if you were in class 4C,or if 4C means sumthing to u..tapi anie specifically,4C SMSH 2007..the meanest class in the whole school..barigali nyamu~~

anyways..u might be wondering why i'm so against the 4Cs..cemani cerita nya...

The 4C's have this game that whoever's marks are higher than theirs during final exam, they rip and kuluk( i have no idea what kuluk is in english)..the exam paper...

thats just STUPID!inda ja? the exam paper can..eh no, IS very useful in revisions..u can learn from ur mistakes and do corrections..etc,etc...next year lagi kan o-level...talor wah...

i dont really mind if they play this stupid game among their classmates saja...tapi,inda!dorang bawa arh other classes...the cali thing is that other classes malas kan fight back just because orang 4C atu kuat menampar..*WTH* baik lagi the lower form 4 classes,such as 4M or 4L..eventho dorang pengambang & capie-capie,tapi at least they have RESPECT for other classes.. 

They kuluk my friend, Belle's(nabilah) maths paper just because it was one mark higher than theirs..sekadar jua tu!its only one mark~duuh..and maths paper atu lagi need to be submitted next lesson..and teacher maths kami lagi "Mrs. Susie Soh"..who is so 'garang'..banar..ia mental banar when i dropped my eraser during a test,pasal she thought i was passing answers to my friend..*tsk*..mun andang my eraser atu ku tulis my no, 132..which was coincidentally the answer to the first question..

The 4C's also kuluk,ripped and threw wazeerah's(4A) english paper dalam garbage class kami..kesian jua ia tu..

Class 4C anie jua class "THE MEAN GIRLS"..barigali kan sekolah kami pun ada this kind of clique..kan sama banar lagi tuu ulah nya with the girls arh movie "Mean Girls" ah.."TALAM DUA MUKA"...except muka dorang saja lain...prasan lawa ah..barigali..lawa lagi jubur ku..ahaha.!!. this is the result of misunderstanding movie "mean girls"..they think mean girls anie cool and popular...EEEEWWW!! haha..

have u readers pernah experience this kind of peer pressure?Do share...and do also share "CARA-CARA MENGATASI NYA?"